I Don’t Want to Have Children and That’s OK

I love this article because I am 28 and I do not want to have any kids. I had a great childhood but I just don’t want kids because I like my freedom. I love children in general but I just don’t have the urge to procreate. I never even thought about marriage until two years ago. I want marriage but not kids just pets. πŸ™‚ And it’s ok because it’s my life!!


I have known that I didn’t want to have kids for a long time. Like, a long time. My determination to eternally keep my womb as empty and barren as the surface of the moon predates the birth of both of Britney’s babies, the premiere of Gilmore Girls, and the entire existence of nearly-adult human being Elle Fanning.

But I never felt like not wanting kids made up the core of my identity or anything β€” it was just a thing, like enjoying The X-Files or having an strong aversion to mayonnaise; a small aspect of my overall self. I never felt the need to consult with other women who didn’t want kids because, well, who needs a support group for not liking mayo?

That was, until I hit my 30s β€” a time when many of my peers were, if not already actively reproducing, at least engaging in…

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It’s Been a Long time and not sure if I should keep this blog?

Many things have been going on in my life. I am a lot happier than I used to be. I’m training as a CNA (certified nursing assistant) at a nursing home. I love the residents and I like the staff. The cons are cleaning body fluids. :/ I love where I live and I’m poor but someday I hope this will change. I am rich because my parents, family and friends love me and I have my health. I have an amazing online boyfriend!! My therapist is superb and beyond my expectations. I might have ADHD and I’m going to see a psychiatrist soon.

My CNA tests are June 29th written and clinical (hands on) exam. I’m working full time so I have been very, very fatigued. My goals for this summer or this year (lol!) is to join a gym and lose 20 lbs because I’m only 5’3 and I weigh 146 😦 So I’m over my bmi (body mass index). I have only struggled with my weight since last year. My other goals are to read, play brain games, study more, to learn how to cook and swim!!

My parents and I got a refrigerator, washer and dryer yesterday after weeks of not having them which was horrible Β we used a mini crappy fridge and we went to the laundromat.

I am very glad I live in this era 2015 because I have rights and I have a voice!! I am a woman and if I had to marry and have sex with someone who only wanted me for my dowry or ending up alone and being a servant that would have been a depressing life!!

I don’t have the energy to do massage therapy anymore I loved it but I just don’t have time anymore.

I’m going to research more about occupational therapy assistant (2 years) and occupational therapy.

God bless and I’m sorry for not posting!!

Also I haven’t been writing any poetry or stories because I haven’t been in the mindset for it. 😦